It used to be thought that a man or boy should give up his seat to any woman or girl who was standing. Now, good manners do not absolutely require him to offer his seat to anyone who is as well able About Giving Up One's Seat to stand as he is, but I always think better of a man or boy who does it, don't you? A strong man or woman, boy or girl, should give up a seat to an old or ill person or cripple, of either sex, to a woman who is carrying a child, or to a laundress with a big basket of clothes.
No well-bred person will crowd, shove, carry an umbrella or cane at a dangerous angle, wear hat pins that threaten other people's eyes, tread on people's feet or put his own so far out in the aisle that other people stumble over them, chew gum, eat peanuts and scatter the shells, talk or laugh aloud in any public place, or occupy two seats in a car when others are standing. For this last offense there is an ugly name and a person who commits it quite deserves it. You should not raise or lower a shade without asking those nearest if they will be inconvenienced. A gentleman who sees any lady in difficulties with a window should offer his help. If the ventilation of a car is bad, and it usually is, speak to the conductor about it. Don't put your feet on the seat opposite. Shoes have street dust on them, and you shouldn't want to use the clothes of the next person to sit down, as a door mat.
- Of manners gentle, of affections mild;
- In wit a man, simplicity a child.
- —Pope.
