cross, let him give up the desire; for as soon as he gives up the desire, he shall come down from the cross. It is the only remedy.
The other rule is, that when you are vexed or offended by others, do not let the thought rest in your mind, neither give way to such considerations as these: "That they have no business to treat me like this; who are they, or what do they think of themselves, or the like," for all this is adding fuel to the fire of anger, indignation, and hatred.
But have recourse at once in such cases to the Strength and Commands of God, in order that you may know what you ought to do, lest perchance your error may be worse than theirs. For in this way you shall return into the path of virtue and peace.
For if you cannot deal rightly with yourself, what marvel is it if others do not deal rightly with you?
And if you delight in taking vengeance on those who offend you, first you ought to take vengeance upon yourself, than whom you have not a greater enemy or offender.
