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man? As for the evidence of reason, the male is the agent and the female the patient.”
“Thou hast said well, O my lord,” rejoined she; “but, by Allah, thou hast proved my contention with thine own lips and hast advanced arguments that tell against thee, and not for thee. Thus: God (blessed and exalted be He) preferred the male above the female, solely because of the quality of masculinity; and in this, there is no difference between us. Now this quality [of masculinity] is common to the child, the boy, the youth, the adult and the graybeard; nor is there any distinction between them in this. Since, then, the superior excellence of man enures to him solely by virtue of the quality of masculinity, it behoves that thy heart incline to the graybeard and thy soul delight in him, equally with the boy, seeing that there is no distinction between them, in point of masculinity. But the difference between thee and me turns upon the qualities that are sought as constituting excellence of intercourse and delight of usance; and thou hast adduced no proof of the superiority of the male over the female in this.”
“O my lady,” answered he, “knowest thou not that which is proper to the boy of symmetry of shape and rosy cheeks and pleasant smile and sweetness of speech? Boys are, in these respects, superior to women; and the proof of this is what is reported of the Prophet, that he said, ‘Stay not thy gaze upon the beardless boys, for in them is the similitude[1] of the black-eyed girls of Paradise.’ Nor indeed is the superiority of the boy over the girl hidden to any, and how well saith Abou Nuwas:
The least of his virtues it is that thou’rt free From uncleanness with him nor with child can he be.
And what another poet says:
- ↑ Or “eye-glance.”